Jenny Bruso, founder of an online community of self-proclaimed unlikely hikers, shares what she’s learned from hiking with others and offers advice for organizing your own group hike. Exploring the outdoors with a group, witnessing their reactions to the same things you’re seeing and engaging in teamwork paints a broader picture of what nature has […]
Jenny Bruso, founder of an online community of self-proclaimed unlikely hikers, shares what she’s learned from hiking with others and offers advice for organizing your own group hike.
Exploring the outdoors with a group, witnessing their reactions to the same things you’re seeing and engaging in teamwork paints a broader picture of what nature has to offer. Everyone’s success is somewhat reliant on each participant. This can be tremendously rewarding and build a strong outdoor community. However, it’s not all butterflies landing on noses and wildflower crowns (don’t pick the wildflowers!). The outdoors can be an intimidating place for someone who didn’t grow up spending time in nature. Communication and paying attention to group dynamics is key.
Every group hike is a learning experience for me, even when it goes “perfectly.” Especially because I don’t lead your average group. In 2015, I created an Instagram community called Unlikely Hikers, which features those often left out of the common outdoors narrative. This includes people of color, people of size, queer, trans and gender nonbinary folks, those with differing physical abilities and people living with mental health issues. Almost immediately after its creation, people started asking how they could participate in group hikes with the Unlikely Hikers community. The thing was, I’d never actually been on one.
Some of us possess identities not often reflected in the outdoors and outdoors media, which can lead to feelings of not being safe. Being a fat, queer woman, I never saw people like me in outdoors imagery. Riding my bike around the block a couple of times before parking myself in front of the television or crashing through waves twice as tall as me on the shores of San Diego was as outdoorsy as it got. About six years ago, a first date became a first hike, leading to an unlikely discovery: I liked hiking. I then spent much of my free time, mostly alone, trying to find out what hiking had to teach me. It changed my self-perception and physical abilities, improved my mental and physical health. It changed everything.
For all the self-empowerment and positive life changes, hiking in a group terrified me. Being alone was a safeguard from the internalized garbage that happens in my head about being “The Slow One” or sweating too much and breathing too hard. However, as with any story I tell myself about what I do or don’t do based on fear or insecurity, this didn’t sit right with me. I joined a couple of group hikes, but they did very little to disprove my feelings. Being left behind when starting something as a group is disheartening and reinforces negative feelings. Always the self-questioning, curious creature, I was determined to create a positive group hiking experience.
Last April, I led my first group hike with Unlikely Hikers in Portland, Oregon’s Forest Park. It was a successful first experience in terms of everyone having a great time and nothing bad happening, but the group splintered into three parts and I have found this to be an issue on almost all of the group hikes I’ve been on, not just ones hosted by me. The fast folks get caught up in personal conversations and forget to check on the group after about halfway. The middle group moves at an even pace but is occasionally confused about who’s ahead and who’s behind. And then there are the truly slow people who feel like they’re holding everything up—my people.
I’ve now hosted many group hikes and I want to share some of the things I’ve learned. I also want to remind you that no matter how much you prepare and do your best, things happen. You can’t control every variable. How you respond is what matters.
If you are leading a group hike:
Split happens. Keep the group together:
If you are participating in a group hike: